5 Sexual Taboos in Our Sexual Fantasies That Are Actually Quite Common
Society tells us how we should behave. It teaches us etiquette and all the rules of social interaction. How to eat, how to walk, how to dress and talk to people, how to date, who to date, who to have sex with, and even how to have sex.
And who makes these rules anyway? There are just so many rules, and it’s hard to keep up.
Many people have sexual fantasies they would love to explore with their partners or cam models.
However, because these fantasies are made up of what we regard as taboo sexual fantasies, we often do not explore them. Sometimes — a lot of times, we need to break free of these rules to live fulfilling and wholesome lives.
Sexual taboos are, most of the time, self-imposed limitations on our sexual freedom. We lose out on sexually satisfying experiences because, in our minds, they are forbidden. But the truth is all is fair in sex and war. The only one allowed to limit what can happen during sex is your sexual partner.
Our sexual fantasies say a lot about us. It tells a deeper story of our existence that we might not even know about ourselves.
And the good news is that when you start to embrace your sexual preferences, you might experience that mind-blowing orgasm you always dreamed of. That being said, what are some of the sexual taboos in our sexual fantasies?
Common Sexual Taboos in Our Sexual Fantasies
Because we are often secretive about our sexual escapades, many people do not realize just how common some of the sexual acts that have been tagged ‘taboo’ are. We’d be sharing a list of some sexual taboos that often feature in our sexual fantasies.
1. Multiple Partners Sex
Sex can be a very intimate activity to express your deep love for your partner. But sex can also be a means to another level of pleasure. That doesn’t necessarily make it unhealthy. Because of the sacred veil put over sex, sex with multiple people is considered a sexual taboo.
The desire to have sex with more than one person at a time comes from the need to feel sexually powerful. Having sex with multiple people, whether a threesome or a full-blown orgy, can also be intimate and very intense.
2. Period Sex
Sex during that time of the month is usually an impossibility for many people. Many people would complain that they find it sexy. However, quite a number of people are extremely horny on their periods and have an intense desire to have sex, blood and all.
BDSM stands for bondage, discipline or domination, sadism/submission, and masochism. It is a sexual activity that often involves intense physical activities such as tying, flogging, and other things that can inflict pain.
For lovers of BDSM, this pain translates into pleasure. BDSM exists as a spectrum, and many different forms of it exist that couples adopt.
Because BDSM can often degenerate into violence, it is necessary for couples who want to explore this sexual taboo to have safewords, regular debriefings, and aftercare routines. This makes the practice safe and preserves the relationship.
4. Gender Bending or Homoeroticism
The gender a person identifies as inevitably impacts their sexual experiences. During sex, a person can decide to take on the role of a gender different from theirs. For example, a man could choose to cross-dress to have sex with his partner.
At that moment, he takes on another character. Gender bending can involve sex toys to allow for a total immersion of character and some role play.
Some people also romanticize the idea of sleeping with someone who is of the same gender as them. They are not necessarily homosexual; they just want a one-off experience with someone of the same gender.
5. Voyeurism and Exhibitionism
Voyeurism involves the desire to watch someone undressing or performing intimate sexual activities such as masturbation without them being aware. Exhibitionism is on the opposite end of this spectrum as it is the desire to be watched.
Voyeurism is often considered a mental disorder, hence regarded as taboo. While voyeurism in its extreme forms can be a disorder, responsible voyeurism can be a sexually fulfilling activity.
For many people who engage in activities considered sexual taboos, they must begin to speak about their sexual experiences.
Sharing these experiences allows people to realize how easily they can fulfill their sexual fantasies with their partners or cam girls. Hiring a model usually takes off the feeling of embarrassment for many people.