How to Talk to Cam Girls on the Internet: 6 Key Tips and Tricks
For some people, talking to girls is just as extreme a sport as Formula 1. The stakes are high —the betrayal of the tongue, stinging embarrassment, and rejection are all unpleasant possibilities.
But talking to a cam girl shouldn’t be such a big deal. A lot of your interaction with a cam girl will be online, where you have the protection of the thin veil of anonymity that the internet provides.
Regardless of the kind of person you are, there’s a cam girl to suit you. Cam girls are all shades of sexy, so you need to find the right approach to communicate with the cam girl of your choice.
An Easy-to-Follow Guide to Talking to a Girl on the Internet
This is not a checklist you must tick off each time you talk to a cam girl. The steps contained here are just general guidelines to follow to ensure that you have a smooth run with your cam girl.
Usually, a model’s profile can tell you a lot about her, such that there is no excuse for you to make unacceptable demands, and there’s a real basis for connection. Your encounter with a cam girl is paid for and doesn’t give you a pass to transgress and break her boundaries.
1. Get The Pleasantries in, Leave the Sex for a Minute
When you go into a cam room, the first thing you need to do to get the attention of the cam girl is to greet her.
Say hello. Asides from the fact that it is the polite thing to do, it also sets you apart from other cam users. Since many other users are invariably bad-mannered, being nice immediately puts you on a slightly higher pedestal.
2. Be Involved in the Room Conversation
There are usually other users in the same cam room with you and the cam girl, except if it is a private session booked between you and the model.
Another way to put yourself in the good books of the cam girl is to keep the room lively by engaging all the users. She would inevitably notice a good user.
Asides from the fact that being involved gets you in the good books of your cam girl, you will also find a community of people to interact with and create a connection with.
3. Express Your Appreciation
Suppose your cam girl keeps you entertained and continues to drive engagement in the room despite literally working her ass off. In that case, you should take any opportunity to express your appreciation with tips and compliments.
Camming performances are not a walk in the park: make sure your cam girl can see that you understand this as well by properly expressing your appreciation.
4. Make Requests Politely
If you’d like to take things a notch higher than what’s happening in the cam room, you can always ask a cam girl to go private with you.
Cam girls who go private will usually indicate so in their profiles. It’d be a bit overkill if you ask a girl who didn’t go private to do so for you.
Also, a cam girl would likely only go private with you if you have already made yourself known in her chat room.
5. Do The Dirty Talk Right
Dirty talk allows you to set the tone for the sexual experience that is to come.
There is such a thing as the right amount of dirty talk, and that is what you should aim for. You don’t want to come on so strong that it becomes irritating. Always check in with the cam girl if it’s okay to send those raunchy texts. Consent is always sexy.
6. Know What Kinks To Pursue
If you want to explore your kinky side with a cam girl, you have to realize that while you’re very likely always to find a cam girl to satisfy your kinks, sometimes, your cam girl might not be into what you are proposing.
If you ask your girl about a kink, and she declines, do not be a child and throw a tantrum. We’ve seen many cam users do this to the point where they descend low and begin to insult or shame the cam girl.
Summarily, a cam girl just wants to be approached and treated like a human being and not just some sex puppet that exists for your entertainment alone. Make sure you do this at every point of interaction with cam girls.