5 Great Tips on How to Use a Butt Plug with a Cam Girl
There’s nothing quite like the mention of a butt plug to raise the collective eyebrows of the masses. Most people would profess to never have brought one into the bedroom and may initially shudder at the thought. Elsewhere, you have a huge contingency of adventurous types, who, despite reveling in the pleasures of but pluggery make no such admission.
Some would prefer to keep the details of their sexual preferences as quiet as possible, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
But if you find yourself within the “butt plug curious” category, you’re basically on the brink of discovering something amazing. If it’s something you’ve given thought to but have lacked the confidence to make it happen in the real world, live sex calls with webcam girls could be the perfect entry point…pun very much intended.
How do I Use a Butt Plug for the First Time?
Using a butt plug for the first time can be daunting and liberating in equal measures, the whole thing can feel a little alien at first, which is why practicing with a live cam sex session comes highly recommended.
You can experiment well outside your comfort zone, knowing that what you get up to is 100% private and anonymous. Best of all, there’s no better place to head for a world of tips and pointers from those who know this kind of thing better than anyone else.
If what you need is a step-by-step tutorial on how to get the most out of your new best friend, this is where you’ll find it.
Otherwise, the basics of butt plug play as a first-timer are fairly straightforward. Simply proceed as follows before, during and after your encounter…and repeat to your heart’s content:
Buy a Beginner’s Butt Plug. Diving in at the deep end with this kind of thing is not a good idea. If this is your first time experimenting with anal accessories, you must start out slow…and small. Opting for something that looks as non-terrifying as possible is the way to go. Even if you feel like you could ‘accommodate’ something much larger, there’s a time and a place to step things up. For now, you’ll want to stick with an entry-level entry device to avoid what could otherwise be a painful experience.
Set the Scene. It may sound a little weird, but setting the right mood for the whole thing can make a world of difference. For reasons that should be fairly obvious, you need to be as relaxed as you can possibly be to make things work. Dim the lights, set up a few candles, have a glass of wine, put some music on – anything that puts you in a good frame of mind.
Use Lots of lubes. And we do mean LOTS – plenty more than you think you need. Lube plays a role of massive importance in these kinds of sexual activities in general, and you can never have too much as a beginner. Things may get disproportionately slippery and messy, but that’s all part and parcel of the fun. Don’t ever make the mistake of attempting to go in dry, as you’ll walk (or hobble) away from the experience wishing you hadn’t bothered.
Insert Slowly and Carefully. Don’t be surprised if the first time you try things out for yourself, you experience some discomfort along the way. Even if you take your time (which you absolutely need to do), practice makes perfect. If you feel any actual pain during the insertion process, stop – never force things, or you could do yourself some damage. Take your time, and if necessary, try again a little later when you’re a little looser down below.
Remove Equally Slowly. Once you have finished doing your thing, and it is time to take it out, proceed just as slowly and carefully as you did with the insertion. The last thing you want at this stage is to ruin the whole thing by yanking it out and injuring yourself in the process. Take your time, leave it in place for as long as you like to get the maximum enjoyment out of it, and then slowly but carefully remove it.
After which, you’ll probably find yourself wondering how you ever had any kind of enjoyable sex without it.