The Ultimate Guide to Squirting: Best Tips, Techniques, Positions, Skype Sex, and More…

If ever there was a topic to raise the eyebrows of even the most sexually liberal folks, it would definitely be squirting.

Even if it’s something you’re aware of (in terms of the fact that it happens), chances are you’ve little to no idea what it’s all about.

Or for that matter, how to make the women you entertain squirt with any kind of consistency.

What Exactly Is Squirting?

Squirting is a phenomenon that occurs when a person experiences a sudden, powerful release of fluid from the urethra during sexual stimulation or orgasm. This phenomenon is also known as female ejaculation, as it is most commonly associated with female orgasm.

However, it is also possible for males to experience this phenomenon.

The whole thing remains a topic of much debate within the scientific community. While some researchers believe that squirting is the result of the release of female ejaculation, others believe it is merely the result of involuntary bladder contractions that occur during sexual stimulation.

The fluid expelled during this phenomenon is usually clear and odorless and is often referred to as “squirt” or “gush”.

The exact origin of squirting is still unknown, but some theories suggest that it may be a result of the Skene’s glands, which are located near the urethra.

These glands are thought to produce a fluid similar to that released during female ejaculation. Others believe that the fluid is actually urine, as it can contain traces of urea and creatinine, which are found in urine.

Although squirting is associated with female pleasure on the highest possible level, it is important to remember that it is not necessary for a person to have an orgasm in order to experience this phenomenon.

Squirting can occur spontaneously and some people may even experience it without any sexual stimulation whatsoever.

How to Make a Woman Squirt

With the boring science out of the way, let’s get down to business – how to make it happen. While you can’t force a woman to squirt, there’s a lot you can do to make it more likely to happen.

Here’s how:

1. Adjust Your Expectations

Right off the bat, it’s essential to accept the fact that not every woman can squirt. And even if you’re with a woman who can, chances are it’s not something you can always count on.

If your expectations are too high, you’ll simply end up putting too much pressure on both of you. At which point, it simply isn’t going to happen – not a chance. Hence, the first thing you need to do is take a step back, adjust your expectations accordingly and keep things relaxed.

2. Let Her Show You the Way

It’s worth bearing in mind that nobody knows how to please any woman better than herself. Hence, letting her show you the way (or even encouraging her to take care of business herself) often holds the key to these explosive releases.

Try setting up a Skype sex date and taking note of exactly what she does to take herself beyond the peak of ecstasy.

You can then use these solid-gold insights to boost your game, next time you’re with a woman in person.

3. Focus on the Foreplay

Not in the conventional sense, but more in the pre-foreplay sense. For a woman to orgasm and/or squirt, she needs to be in the right mindset.

She needs to feel relaxed, confident, sexy, desirable and completely lost in the moment. Sexual pleasure is psychological and physical in equal measures, so remember to pay plenty of mind to the former of the two.

Setting up a Skype sex date is a great way to encourage foreplay.

4. Stimulate Her G-Spot

If you’ve still not learned where her G-Spot is, it’s high time you did. The female G-Spot is situated on the front wall of the vagina (near her stomach) one and a half to three inches in and should be stimulated with pressure and gentle massaging, rather than friction.

Give her G-Spot the attention it deserves throughout and you’ll know when you’re getting it right.

5. Get Some Sex Toys

The best sex toys on the market are designed specifically to make women explode with pleasure and can be surprisingly easy to use. They can also make it much easier to bring a woman to orgasm than going in manually…so to speak.

By picking up (and learning how to use) some high-end sex toys, you’ll be doing both of you a big favor.

6. Try Standing Up

On a final note, there’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ position, when it comes to making women squirt. All women have their own individual preferences and some find certain positions hotter than others.

Even so, some sexual health experts advise those who’ve never (or rarely) squirted in their lives to try standing up.

It’s not a commonly practiced position in the bedroom, but there’s apparently something about a standing position that makes for explosive female orgasms. Ask her to stand facing you in a slightly backward leaning position, open her legs enough for you to gain access and go for it!