The Dos and Don’ts of Skype Sex: 6 Mistakes to Avoid for a Great Experience

Exploring the dynamic world of Skype sex online is something everyone should do at least once. Though it’s pretty safe to say that once you discover what you’ve missed, you’ll return for more.

There’s something uniquely thrilling about hooking up with super-hot cam girls from all four corners of the world. The anonymity of the whole thing is surprisingly liberating, coupled with the freedom to play the field and explore your deepest (and, dare we say, darkest) kinks. 

Even so, there are some things you should and definitely shouldn’t do when spending time with cam girls. Whether it’s your first or fiftieth time at bat, a certain code of conduct always applies.

If you’re out for the best possible experience for both you and your online date, the following golden rules of etiquette should be followed during live sex calls:

1. Don’t Forget to Be Polite and Courteous 

An online date should be treated as kindly as any other date you would meet in the real world. Just because you are paying for a service as a customer does not mean your date is an ‘object’ that falls within your possession. 

You’re paying for her time – not to treat her with anything other than politeness and courtesy. Wear a smile, be courteous, and remember that a little old-fashioned chivalry (even over a distance) goes a long way. 

2. Don’t Profess Your Love to Webcam Models 

Do clients sometimes fall head over heels in love with the webcam models they hook up with regularly? Of course, they do. Even so, the fact that the relationship will never progress any further than its current ‘virtual’ guise means you need to keep your expectations realistic. 

And for that matter, keep your emotions to yourself. This is really one of the quickest and easiest ways to transform an otherwise enjoyable encounter into something painfully creepy. 

3. Do Take the Time to Get to Know Them 

If you really want to, you can skip straight to the action. But if you want to get the most out of every virtual date, it’s a good idea to take the time to get to know her. Talk to cam girls about their hobbies, interests, and so on, which can help build the connection that makes for even more enjoyable sex. 

It’s worth remembering that when your partner (virtual or otherwise) feels you’re genuinely interested in them, they’re far more likely to try to show you a fantastic time.

4. Don’t Ask Them to Do Anything That’s Off the Menu

When you read the bio of a webcam model, you’ll learn exactly what kinds of things they are willing to do. This is basically where the buck stops, irrespective of how limited their ‘portfolio’ of services may be. 

If something you want is not included in their bio, you can assume it’s something they do not do. In this case, it is completely unacceptable for you to ask them (or attempt to persuade them) to do. Just as is the case in the real world, no means no…period. 

5. Don’t Forget to Make the Effort to Return 

The very best virtual dates are those that are reciprocal in nature. If you want your virtual partner to make every effort to please you, it’s only fair that you do the same in return. This means ensuring you look the part, being open-minded, asking them what they want you to do, and complying without hesitation. 

As is the case in the real world, virtual dates that are completely one-sided are only somewhat enjoyable. 

6. Don’t Ask Them to Meet You in Person

If there’s one thing you should never do when hooking up with cam girls online, this is it. If you want to meet up with something in the real world that offers physical payment services, there’s no shortage of options available. However, these are different from the kinds of services provided by cam girls. 

Far from it, as what you’re paying for here is the virtual company and companionship of someone you will never (ever) meet in the real world. Organizing real-life meetups is completely out of the question, putting cam girls in a difficult and awkward position when such requests are made. 

Long story short – never ask them to meet you in person, irrespective of the bond you feel you’ve built with them.